Archive for the ‘Workshops and Presentations’ Category


This is a presentation that has been adapted over the years, taken an evolution into academia around communications, professional reflection and the business world. Rooted in monastic formation and practices, as well as psychology. For long time readers, the book, Pilgrimage to the Heart of the Sacred, touches on many of these aspects but this brings it into a workshop form.

Journalling for many feel that it is a structured, respond to the prompt endeavour. But it is more. It can be part of a reflective exercise. Used for a specific learning outcome, or even better, daily exercise to be able to move through the internal and external noise to see what is being experienced. It does not have to be in the form of written (cursive or typing) but can also be creative.

It is an essentialy part of being a lifelong learner. The learning dialogue is both internal and external. Internally our own worldview (experiences, aspirations, beliefs) interact with the learning material, the experience, for us to arrive at a conclusion as to the experience. This is then taken into dialogue (hopefully) with others who have shared the experience.

It can be seen as spiritual, it is a piece of the learning dialogue. A reflective practice touches into the deeper, intrinsic pieces of us. It can be hard to formulate into words, we may have to take time to quiet the noise after an event or learning or even during (think CBT, meditation, body scan, etc) it does not have to be a truly introverted approach, as extroverts can take a moment to centre and just be present taking in to understand not to respond, and relating the experience.

Touching on the emotions involved.

Using the written word. Colouring. Doodling. Scibbling. Sculpting, Painting. Building Models. Cartooning. Knitting. Crocheting. Beading. Mind Mapping.

What is your creative expression? How do you let this reflective practice and learning dialogue engage within in?

Take time to do.

Set aside time at beginning or end of day.

Set a timer on your phone.

Start simple, 10 minutes, but don’t let the pen/pencil/colours stop moving during the time.

The holistic connection is understanding that all aspects are released during journaling for that is what it is.

A list poem is simply what it sounds like: A list.

Like you make for a to do list or a grocery list.

A 6 word poem takes a format of 3 lines: 3 words/2 words/1 word.

Pick a song from a genre you normaly do not listen to.

Centre your breath, a simple way to do this is to breathe up counting 1 to 10 with deep diaphragmic breaths, on inhale count, on exhale use a word with meaning, I like hope. At 10 do the same but count down.

Listen to the music.

Use the colours to engage with the emotions and then see where you are on the wheel.

May you cultivate an inner connection of reflective learning…

Discover what journalling is for you.


A workshop I have given in many places from community to church to classroom that explores ideas around grieiving. What is grieving? It is how we process loss an change, if we understand that every change in life no matter how small to large brings a grieving cycle then we can become more attuned with emotions, and open to discussing loss.

We can also become more open to the risk of belonging.

Lars and the Real Girl was a gift at a Winter Refresher in the 00’s at St. Andrew’s College, for those in ministry and preparing for ordered ministry in the United Church of Canada. This is a wonderful story on the power of belonging in healing, and can raise or rather open the ethical discussion on what makes a life. See, we are not fully aware, but something has happened to Lars, he is secluding and isolating in the guest house on his brother and sister-in-laws property, withdrawing from his usual community (re: church), and folks are beginning to notice. One day he knocks on his brother’s door, and makes a request, he has an online girlfriend who is coming to visit, due to their devout beliefs she can’t stay with him but could she use the guest room. The sister-in-law is excited Lars is coming back from the darkness.

The girlfriend is a wheel chair user, and one begins to think it is ableism at the shock on the brother and spouse face, but then you see– the wheelchair users is a life size doll. A visit to the doctor the next day just affirms Lars is going through something, they can try to shock him out of it not knowing the result, or roll with the delusion and see what happens. The family decides to roll with the delusion for healing, but will others?

It is a story of belonging, as Bianca (the real girl) is affirmed in community. She has a life, girls nights, bowling league, elected to the school board— and then…

She falls ill.

There is a beautiful scene where the women’s group shows up with casseroles, when asked why by Lars, they simply reply “we are here to sit, knit and eat” that is we are simply here to be present with you as you journey out of your normal, into the unknown, and into the new normal.

What a beautiful concept of belonging.

What a way to show the journey of grieving (take time if you can to host a potluck and discussion night around Lars and the Real Girl)…

For more take a dive into the other slides and ideas/questions thoughts to wrestle through.

In Canada if you are struggling with Mental Health, please call 988.

Also you may want to invest in micro-credentials (trainings) for yourself, group or church in things such as Mental Health First Aid, ASSIST, Safe Talk, and Naloxone.


The last 2 Saturdays I was blessed to facilitate workshops at the Supernatural Life Centre in Calgary on Substance Misuse and behaviours. This morning was more of a chit chat with Q & A, but last week we dove right into the learning. What follows is some pictures, a short video clip, and slides…

https://www.facebook.com/100003228172418/videos/435749522398046

See the link below the pictures for a 10 minute clip of last week’s sharing.